If you’ve noticed recently that the man is getting used to you, you’re probably wondering why he did it and what it might mean.
In this article I will try to help you understand why a man can stand in front of you and help you find out how this will happen in the future.
What does it mean when a man appears before your eyes? This may mean that he is attracted to you, which is more likely if he does it just for you, if he does it more than once, and if he shows other signs of attraction around you. He may also have an itch, show that he’s comfortable with you, or he may not think about what you saw.
Since there are a number of reasons why a man listens to you, it is important to look at the context in which he has done so and the body language he shows around you.
This will give you a better idea of why he did it.
Possible reasons why a man piles up in front of you
Each of the different reasons why a man can queue up for you is likely to give some clues about his body language.
In what follows, I will give you some reasons why the man appears before your eyes along with the body language signals you should be looking for.
He probably adapted in front of your eyes because he was itchy or because his crotch was uncomfortable.
Had he done so, he would most likely have had a neutral body language and would most likely not have shown the set of body language signals referred to in the next paragraph.
He likes you.
He may have lined up for you because of what you attract.
If this is the case, he will probably stand in such a way that the walking area is marked, for example if he keeps his hands on his hip.
He is likely to show many more signs of attraction in his body language and behaviour when he is with you.
These could be signs:
- Pupils dilation talking to you.
- He touches you more than any of his other friends.
- You talk to you more than the other people in the group.
- Make plans according to your schedule
- Keep eye contact with you longer than normal.
- Stand next to you when you talk to them.
- Reflecting your body language.
- Show signs of fear when you’re with other men.
- They often look at you and quickly turn away when you notice it.
- Speak in a lower voice than usual.
- Position yourself so they’re close to you.
- He points at you with his legs, even when he’s not standing right in front of you.
- To defend themselves when other men are present.
- No negative signals, such as cross-legged, squinting or tightening lips.
- Smooth his hair or clothes when he sees you.
- ask your friends to talk to you…
- Look at your lips.
He feels comfortable with you
When a man stands in front of you, it often means that he feels comfortable in your presence and is not being judged.
In that case he would probably have a comfortable body language in which he does not cross his arms and legs, does not bend, does not squeeze his pupils, does not squeeze his jaws and does not squeeze his fists.
But he probably showed vulnerable parts of his body, like the palms of his hands, he showed the real smile, over which he leaned close to the eyes and spoke in a normal tone.
His underwear was out of place.
Maybe he did it because his underwear wasn’t in place. If he had done it for that reason, he probably would only have done it once and wouldn’t have shown many other signs of attraction.
He didn’t know what you were looking for (he itched), or he was nearsighted.
Maybe he was itchy and didn’t know someone was watching him, so he went ahead and adjusted the crucifixion. Again, if that was the cause, it wouldn’t show many signs of attraction and would probably happen soon.
Or maybe he knew what you were looking for, but he did it anyway. In this case, he is likely to show other reckless tendencies in his behavior and body language.
Taking into account where and when he did it.
If you’re trying to understand why the man built it for you, it would be useful to see when and where he did it.
If he had done it when you were alone, and had shown other signs of attraction to body language at that time, it is more likely that he did it because he finds you attractive.
If he had done this while showing clear signs of discomfort in a more public environment, it would have been much more likely that he would have done so because of the itching.
Consider normal behavior
If you’re trying to understand a man’s body language, it’s usually very useful to know what his normal body language and behavior looks like.
If he never adapts in front of others, his body language and behavior changes when he is with you, and he often adapts when he is near you, then he is much more likely to do so because of what draws him to you.
If he tends to do it in front of other people, he is more likely not to have a strong social conscience of his own.
Think about your relationship with him after
It would also be useful to think about your relationship with him.
If you’ve never met him, just go ahead with the body language he showed when he was with you. If he showed signs of attraction to you, it would indicate that he did it because he finds you attractive.
If it’s a man you were with and he’s never done it before, it may be because he had an itch, but he feels comfortable with you. If he does it regularly, it may be an unconscious way for him to mark the stage area for you.
Investigating different aspects of body language
In an effort to find out why he was standing in front of you, it would be best to look at several other body language signals he was showing at the same time.
In general, there are many reasons why a person can show a certain body weight. However, if a person shows several body language signals that all point to the same thing, you can draw a much more reliable conclusion about why he or she showed those signals.
If you want to learn more about body language, I recommend a good online video course about Skillshare. It shows how you interpret body language and understand people’s true intentions.